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Friday, November 22, 2013

Principally Speaking

Who can get into the spirit of Christmas when retailers start pushing Santa and his elves long before trick or treaters  pull on their Princess and Batman costumes? Christmas decorations were displayed weeks before Halloween this year. It’s hard to think of Christmas while jack-o-lanterns and spider webs are still peeking out front windows and adorning porches. It seems Christmas shopping is encouraged earlier every year with Black Friday sales being hyped all through November.
As my children were growing up, we had a tradition that the family member who first saw a Christmas commercial on television, got to decide what kind of Christmas cookies we would bake first. A few years back, one would not expect to see any Christmas advertisements until at least the day after Thanksgiving. The first one we encountered this year was on November 1st.  The good news is that parents can set memorable traditions with their children during the holiday season without commercials and without worrying about sales, shopping and spending a lot of money.  Here are some examples:

·                     Write down a family member’s name and place it in a bag accompanied by reasons why this person is special. Share these together in front of a fire with mugs of hot chocolate, or around the dinner table during dessert.
·                     Make plans with friends or other family members to sing carols to the residents in nursing or retirement homes.
·                     Make holiday cookies together.
·                     Donate nearly new toys to the Sacramento Childrens’ Receiving Home
·                     Watch the ads for Michaels and Hobby Lobby where you can get crafts 50% off for your children to gather round the table and work on.
·                     Choose some holiday books from the library and spend an evening reading out loud while snuggled in cozy pajamas.

Money does not define tradition. Use your imagination to find ways of bringing the children in your family together. There is a lot parents can do to bring joy to their children’s lives. The secret is beginning with the end in mind to find quality time to spend together. That’s the best gift of all.


Merry Christmas and Happy Holidays

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